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Showing posts with label fashion. Show all posts

Back to school clothes shopping for overweight girls: how to dress your plus-size teen

If you think buying clothes is difficult for an overweight adult, try shopping for a plus-size teen. Helping overweight teens shop for back to school clothes can be a nightmare for both of you. Kids struggle with body image and kids who are obese even more so. Some care too much about fashion and it affects their school performance, worrying about how they look. Some kids don't care enough. Their wardrobe is early dumpster. Teach kids to take pride in their looks no matter what they weigh. Here are style advice tips for plus-size girls' fall fashions, the fab and fail. Overweight women should follow these tips too.

Avoid too-small clothing. She may ask, "does this make me look fat?" Yes, it does, if it's too tight. Nobody sees clothing size. They see fit. You may not be overweight or you may only have 10 pounds to lose. Packed into too-tight clothes, all the bulges show. This goes for bras, underwear and jeans, too. Save the muffin top for the bakery!

Nix the saggy, baggy look. Wearing too-big clothes makes you look bigger not smaller. Now oversized shirts cinched and belted at the waist can work. Done right, it's a flattering look on plus-size women. But the rest of the ensemble--leggings, slacks, jeans--should fit properly.

Choose a lightweight, linen suit. Wear baggier, lightweight pants with stretch or drawstring waist. Wear a long, lightweight blouse over it. Or wear a strapless cami with shell jacket over it. Just make sure it fits.

Avoid shapeless or A-line dresses. They accentuate the belly and make you look pregnant. Belt skirts or fitted dresses to highlight smaller waist compared to larger bust and hips. Avoid mini skirts. Opt for full maxi dresses or skirts or those that just above the knee or a smidge higher.

Flare leg pants rock. This style trends in and out. But flare leg pants should stay in the plus-size gal's (and guy's) wardrobe. Whether long-legged or short, narrow-thigh flared jeans accentuate positive and disguise negative. Straight-leg jeans make legs look bigger.

Wear shoes with heels. Under pants or dresses, high-heeled boots, wedge sandals, pumps and stilettos put the focus on height. Opt for shaped, form-fitting heels, not clumpy flats. If you like lower heels, choose Gladiator sandals or open-toed flip-flops with a little lift. Tall boots look great on just
about everyone, with or without heels.

Choose long fitted T-shirts and blouses with larger collars, darts and side gathers. Wear flowing tops with empire waists or cinched with a wide belt with cute buckle. Avoid full gathered tops. Choose for chest size so buttons don't gap. Avoid cap sleeves, tank tops, spaghetti straps and strapless blouses alone. You can wear them under sweaters and suit coats. Look for long-sleeved, mid-arm or three quarter length. Choose halter tops for summer. They create a flattering neckline and upper body. Cover big arms with a light cardigan sweater.

Accentuate the decolletage. One plus to being plus-sized is a more generous chest. Celebrate cleavage, but don't advertise. Sport a peek, don't display the continental divide. Scoop, V, crew and square necks flatter big-busted girls.

Keep an eye on patterns. Look for vertical pin-stripe slacks. Wear large paisley, jacquard, plaid prints where you want minimize and small prints where you want to maximize. If you wear floral, choose tasteful designs. Stick to vertical, diagonal, hounds-tooth check patterns or solids. Avoid logos, pictures and lettered clothing. Choose professional patterns, not cutesy or childish designs. Be careful with animal prints.

Wear breathable fabric. Knit and polyester-cotton blends give room to move and prevent chafing. Choose stretch jeans and dress pants with Lycra or Spandex blended in but avoid wearing those alone. Good fabrics are soft lace, eyelet, silk, chambre, tweed, jersey, satin, velveteen, hemp, linen and ruch; skip taffeta and other stiff, unyielding fabrics.

Go with colors looks good on you. Downplay big bottoms or bellies with neutral colors. Accentuate curves with dark, rich, bold, lush colors: metallic, earth tones, deep red, royal purple, dark blue and basic black and even animal prints, tastefully done. Wear dark and light contrasts. Avoid pastel, neon or garish colors.

Accessorize with care. Skip bows and ties on blouse fronts. Center gems, brooches and beading to draw attention to positives. Wear loose neck scarves, elongated earrings and necklaces and chunky rings and bracelets. If you have nice feet, show off with a pedicure, toe ring and ankle bracelet

Workaround for One Piece or Bikini Bathing Suit Dilemma

I have lost 96 pounds and dropped eight sizes. So a wardrobe makeover is in process. My husband posed a good question for summer wear: one piece or two-piece bathing suit? With Spring Break coming up, it's a good consideration.

My husband suggested that since I have lost weight, I might try a two-piece or even bikini. I still have belly pudge, but so does most every woman on the beach. Not being body-perfect doesn't stop them wearing a bikini. And it shouldn't. But personally, no matter how toned I get, I'll never wear one. Not to be prudish, it's just too revealing.  But there are problems with one piece, too. Here's a workaround. Diet Tip Workaround for One Piece or Bikini Bathing Suit Dilemma

Last-Minute Valentine's Day Gifts with Chutzpah!

Well, you did it again. February 14th is right around the corner and you haven't gotten your sweetheart. Don't panic; your friendly neighborhood cupid is here with some fabulous ideas that you can get last minute. Don't settle for kitschy candy flowers. You're no ho-hum guy. You've got moxy! So give your girlfriend or wife a gift with attitude! If you want to impress your lady and gain brownie points, give her one of these these offerings. She'll see how sensitive, savvy and sophisticated a guy you are. And the good news is, none will break the budget. Just visit a local antique store, consignment shop, secondhand store. You might even hit pay dirt with a Good Will. Here is what you are looking for: Last-Minute Valentine Gifts with Style

Back to School Shopping: Roman Gladiator Sandals for School Shoes

I live in bare feet or sandals, year round. Barefoot when I can, sandals if I must. If you are shopping for back-to-school shoes for your fashionista and looking for sandals, consider the gladiator style sandal. I know, many parents might be aghast that I should encourage or even suggest sandals for school shoes. I'm not recommending them, simply acknowledging that many students love sandals and will wear them to school despite any parent prohibition to the contrary. So if students are going to wear a sandal to school, it may as well be a good, comfortable one. Roman gladiator sandals are a reasonable school shoe option.  Back to School Shopping: Roman Gladiator Sandals for School Shoes

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Best Fragrance and Perfumes for Young Girls and Tweens


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Choosing Plus-Sized Clothing without Tears




Most of us ladies would say we want to lose a little or a lot of weight. Well, until that time comes, if it does, remember the Golden Rule: Love your neighber as yourself. Many of us are pretty good at the loving the neighbor part. We have plus-size hearts to go with the body. There isn't anything we wouldn't do for a friend and often even an enemy. We know about being generous, kind and loving (maybe too well). But the loving yourself, that's just a mite trickier. For all us who are plus size at loving others and Size zero at loving ourselves, I've tweaked the golden rule a little to read like this 'Do unto yourself as you would do unto others.'

Look at the luxurious curves on the Janes (Mansfield and Russel). The divas of yesteryear were no twiggy size 3; These gorgeous gals were curvaceous and big! Here is a clothing guide that will walk you through the often unpleasant task of selecting plus-sized clothing and still preserving a positive attitude about yourself. Read on...

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